I need to stop staring at the rearview mirror of what I did before this and look forward to what could be said and shown today, tomorrow, and the next day. If you were to ask if I am having a motivation problem posting entries on this John Wise blog thing after more than 800 near consecutive entries, I could only answer – DUH! I love the creative outlet when it is flowing and I don’t much care if I am the only visitor to my site, but sometimes I have to ask myself why I didn’t choose an easier task for a blog, such as the, “Once in a lifetime answer to the reason for our existence” – a simple single entry that serves all of humanity for all time. I’ll post that later this summer.
Chihuly and Warhol – Day 15
We checked out of our cheapo Days Inn room and were on the turnpike by 6:30, which was late. So we hit warp drive and witnessed this phenomenon. We were in such a hurry that we stopped at the Somerset Travel Plaza to eat at Burger King for breakfast; not our best choice, but it was fast and convenient.
Yes, the vacation is almost over, but now comes the real treat: The Phipps Conservatory. Dale Chihuly’s glasswork is on exhibit amongst the plants, flowers, and fountains. A month prior to leaving Phoenix, Caroline and I had watched a documentary on DVD which just so happened to be about Chihuly’s work in a conservatory, and we thought there was no chance of us ever catching one of these exhibits, but then about a week before our departure, our airline changed our departure time on the return leg of our vacation and all of a sudden we had more time in Pittsburgh to play with. The first place I looked at was the Pittsburgh Visitors Bureau, which prominently featured a blurb about the upcoming Chihuly exhibit opening on May 5th – WOW! What a stroke of luck as this was the day we landed in Pittsburgh, though we already had commitments, so on May 19th, with the extra time, we would be able to stop at the conservatory and have a leisurely walk through the garden to admire the art of Chihuly.
I think the first time we saw Chihuly’s work in person was at the Monterey Bay Aquarium over in California though I suppose it could have been at the Bellagio over in Las Vegas, Nevada too. Today, though, we are being treated to what could be our once-in-a-lifetime chance to see his works in a conservatory.
I shot a couple of hundred photos here and have been hard-pressed to be satisfied with the 13 I’ve decided to share.
It’s immediately apparent that no amount of time will satisfy the opportunity to try and capture what’s on exhibit here in Pittsburgh today. Time of day, lighting conditions, and just where one situates themself to capture a good representation of what is on display is a fool’s errand at best.
This glass butterfly looked so real until I saw it move and realized it was, in fact, real. Just kidding, it was totally fake, not.
Our flight leaves tonight at 6:00 p.m., so there’s no chance for us to witness this scene with our own eyes in the light of sunset. For the rest of eternity, we’ll be unable to see this sculpture in any other light than what we are capturing right here right now, but at least we own this opportunity.
Perspective changes everything. The image with the butterfly was from this piece that boggles the mind of how it was assembled without breaking a thing.
Moments of genius obviously went into how this was going to be set up for the conservatory.
Also, a lifetime of skill from working with glass and how patterns work in the material are on display for our benefit. For the people of Pittsburgh, like the people who live near Longwood Gardens here in Pennsylvania, too, you are the lucky ones who get to return again and again to see what the casual visitor is obviously going to miss.
The colors…
The contrasts…
The depth and reflections…
It all comes together to act as the perfect punctuation for the last day of our vacation.
Okay, just one more, and then we’ll go.
What a nice, funky corner of Pittsburgh we’re in, known as the Strip District. Found some parking, and now it’s time to go fetch lunch.
Primanti Bros. is home to a world-famous sandwich found nowhere else besides Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania. Two weeks ago, Caroline and I stopped here prior to our drive to Buffalo, New York, for a sampling of this monster sandwich piled high with coleslaw and fries placed between two thick slices of Italian bread. The sandwich was so good we felt we couldn’t go wrong making a return pilgrimage and sitting down once more for one of these marvelous Primanti Bros.’ unique culinary inventions – yum!
Nobody should ever visit Pittsburgh and fail to visit the Andy Warhol Museum.
Visit the museum and stare into the eyes of Warhol so he can eat your soul. End of transmission.
Island Life – Day 14
It was raining when sunrise was supposed to welcome us to the day, so instead of venturing out right away, we used the opportunity to repack in anticipation of tomorrow’s flight home. It happens quite often that this act of preparation happens a day or so early so we don’t feel pressured by everything else that has to happen on a fly day. Over in the breakfast nook, we took some time to hang out and chat with some other guests, waiting for the weather to clear.
Once we did get going, we drove back up the island in search of a beach to explore, but it turns out that Ocracoke is not really made for parking cars, and we’re not made for rain. Okay, Caroline is, but I can’t risk walking somewhere I might dissolve.
There are no tours open to the public here at the Ocracoke Lighthouse, so we must admire it from outside. No complaints, though, as we’ve already seen so many others while we’ve been here in the Eastern United States.
Finally a parking lot, bathrooms, and even a boardwalk instead of the more common off-road vehicle access.
Our plan is to catch the last ferry back to the mainland at 12:30, so all there is to do is hang out and walk along the ocean.
The wind blows, and we just keep walking along.
Until Caroline can no longer resist the urge to doff the shoes and claim the Atlantic Ocean in North Carolina as her own.
I’d swear we’d seen these exact pelicans over in Santa Barbara, California, last year, but Caroline is certain that we’ve never seen the lead pelican, so maybe I’ll concede that one. The other two bringing up the rear, though; I know those birds for sure.
These two birds also seem familiar, especially the blue-collared booby on the left.
We found some nice specimens of seashells along the ocean, along with a pristine shell that Caroline pointed out was a whelk.
Our ferry is late due to a pilot dealing with a dead battery, but it will be here, we are assured.
The ride across the channel is nearly 2.5 hours, which not only affords us the entertainment of feeding the birds that are flying along with the bread a lady is sharing with us but there’s also the opportunity for me to grab a nap. Caroline tried to sleep a bit but was too distracted by all the things that were far more interesting than the back of her eyelids.
We landed in Swanquarter, North Carolina, and by now, we were hungry but there was nothing out this way. By the time we reached Jamesville, we spotted Mackey’s Ferry Peanuts, and this being North Carolina, we were certain we’d score some more boiled peanuts; sure enough, we did, but we got a whole lot more.
Chris is the owner of this peanut stand (it’s a lot bigger than a peanut stand!), and not only did he give us an enthusiastic recommendation for Shaw’s Barbecue House over in Williamston, but he taught us how to make boiled peanuts:
- Soak peanuts overnight in water
- Pressure cook using 3 cups of salt per 5 pounds of peanuts for an hour
or put them in a slow cooker and cook on high for 12 hours - Add more water and let sit overnight
The rest of the day was spent driving to Hagerstown, Maryland, our pit stop, on the way back to Pittsburgh.
Chesapeake to Ocracoke- Day 13
You might think a grey, overcast day would put a damper on our enjoyment, but that’s not so. Oh sure, photos of landscapes are mostly better when shot under blue skies, but I blame poor photos on the lack of skills of the photographer. Then again, I also wonder why I even care how someone else might perceive our day as somehow tragic since we had to “endure” the weather. Maybe it’s all tied up in our superficial obsession with beauty and brand where everything must be wrapped in perfection, and if it’s not, we should feel sorry for those not able to participate in those luxuries. Well, come rain or shine, we are ready to move down the road and up the trail.
The last time we encountered the Chesapeake Bay Bridge and Tunnel, it was under the dark of night; today, it is under the kinda darkish cover of heavy clouds. So, what’s the bright side of this? Considering that Caroline was born and raised in Germany and that I was raised in Los Angeles, how many people from Germany should be so lucky to travel this bridge and tunnel system twice in their lifetime, and for that matter, how many from Los Angeles will venture out this way?
Just above this tunnel entrance is the Virginia Originals & Chesapeake Grill where we had breakfast because how often does one have the opportunity to eat on a manmade island?
Into the bowels of the earth – one must wonder, with all that water above our heads, are there any leaks down here?
Why it took four hours to travel 77 miles is beyond me; maybe Caroline needed the toilet a lot, as we know how women are. Just kidding, Caroline actually has a bladder that can compete with anybody. I’ve made her wait hours as I inconsiderately accidentally kept missing places we could have pulled over, and she barely made a squeak about how horrible a person I am as she was raging in pain. Come to think about it, I’ll bet a dollar Caroline will groan when she reads that I’m sharing her toilet habits with the larger world.
Stopping in Virginia Beach at Java Surf to try the butter pecan espresso probably didn’t help in my need to write about the frequency of peeing, but that’s what we did, though that was a while ago. Here at the North Carolina border, we stopped at the Southland Gas Station and Barbecue. This might be a first for us where gas and barbecue are had at the same stop. We did not have much hope for anything exceptional, but by the crowd inside this joint, we should have known we were in for a treat. “Wow!” is the best description of how amazing North Carolina BBQ done right can be, and for the first time ever, we found how much we can love vinegar-based BBQ sauce.
I know exactly what you’re going to think about now: “Are these two like a couple of Vielfraß when they travel?” Well, we kind of are exactly that. We are trying to think of the boiled peanuts as dessert. In any case, we have to take advantage of these little luxuries as they happen, as over in Arizona, we won’t find boiled peanuts for a thousand miles. As for the Vielfraß thing (pronounced feel-fros), it’s a wolverine in German, but in the context of talking about food, it’s a thing that gobbles up its food wherever it can find it in an urgent and frantic way. This has been our German word lesson of the day.
We were warned to avoid “French Fry Alley” as the area from Kitty Hawk to Nags Head is known to some locals. The pejorative nature of the connotation turns out to be quite accurate as there is an air about this area that smacks of Atlantic City and Daytona Beach and attracts the lowest common denominator of subhuman troglodytes. My snobbish tastes definitely lean more towards Bar Harbor, Maine, New Bedford, Massachusetts, Cannon Beach, and Yachats in Oregon and other places that are quiet, civilized, and missing most of the vulgarity of people who reluctantly become tourists in the pursuit of an ideal instead of an experience.
The museum here at the Wright Brothers National Memorial at Kill Devil Hills down the road from Kitty Hawk is okay, but the narrow roads with no pull-outs were not designed for people who want to pause along the drive to get out for a walk or take photos. We also notice there are no bike or hiking trails out here, what kind of park is this?
The woman in the gift/book shop was downright rude, sealing our experience as being horrible, which is a first in a national park or monument. But enough of this blemish as we can simply move on.
Don’t get the idea we were in any way discouraged as we knew that lighthouses were coming up, and one of them is likely the most famous on earth. We are at Cape Hatteras National Seashore south of French Fry Alley and a million miles of culture away from all of that. I’m not sure, but I think our smiles help brighten the overcast sky.
The Bodie Island Lighthouse is our first stop on Highway 12 South. This icon has been operational since 1848, and while tours are available, we opt to use our shortening time out here to visit the Cape Hatteras Lighthouse and maybe come back someday to visit this one.
The Cape Hatteras Lighthouse, built back in 1870, looks like it hasn’t been painted since then, but from a distance, you’d never know. We’re thrilled to be here, so much so that Caroline splurged in the gift shop and bought a pendant of the lighthouse that she’ll cherish for years into the future.
Of course, we are climbing the 268 steps to the top.
Here, we are standing atop this 137-year-old beacon to seafarers. Our day on this stretch of the Outer Banks is now complete.
A little further down the road, we run out of land. We either turn around or swim. Just kidding, our plan all along was to take the ferry across the channel to the island of Ocracoke, where we had a room reserved for the night.
This is what $80 gets you at the Harborside Motel.
Dinner was at the incredible Cafe Atlantic, where we feasted on a couple of seafood combos and were wooed by the hummingbird cake served with the greatest toasted coconut ice cream ever.
The rain is coming down hard over at the Ocracoke Lighthouse, but along the way, we get to see some fireflies. Nature’s fireworks are the perfect close to the day.
Assateague Island – Day 12
What a great day to wake before sunrise and head over to the east side of Oxford for a direct view of the rising sun.
It’s nice and quiet here on a Wednesday morning outside the main tourism season. Just us, the birds, the Tred Avon River, and a growing satisfaction of the experience, this is all ours.
While she may difficult to see sitting there on the right, we sat next to the water for a good long time to enjoy this luxurious start of the day.
Back at the Ruffled Duck Inn, we were spoiled with an incredible breakfast of artfully arranged fruit, including honeydew, cantaloupe, strawberries, pineapple, and grapes. An omelet with spinach, mushroom, and feta with a side of small phyllo dough pastries filled with jam rounded things out. We are ready to take on the day.
We wanted to take the ferry from Oxford west over to Bellevue on the other side of the Tred Avon River, but we were too early. As we felt like getting out on our sightseeing adventure, we headed north and then south on our way toward Taylor Island.
Once we were on Smithville Road, surrounded by some luscious grasslands, we saw that we didn’t have enough map resolution to figure out which (if any) of the side roads we should venture down, so we circumnavigated the peninsula, skipping even more detours.
The Harriet Tubman Underground Railroad National Historical Park is out in the middle of all this, but seeing this has already been a detour, Caroline is excited for the ponies of Chincoteague, and I want us to visit Rehoboth Beach over in Delaware because the name is intriguing we forego the park during this visit.
The woman in an orange shirt was on a mission to save the orange turtle in the Blackwater Wildlife Refuge.
Bestpitch Ferry Bridge between Bucktown and Henry’s Crossroads appears to be the road less traveled. This is our form of winning.
This is not Millie’s Roadhouse in Vienna, Maryland, where we had lunch, but Millie’s is where we stopped. This place was along the road somewhere that could still be in Maryland, or maybe it’s in Delaware. No matter where it is, it no longer serves the purpose of sheltering people.
Georgetown, Delaware, is a quaint town on Highway 9 on our way to the beach. A Mountain Mudd Espresso hut came to our rescue as our eyes were growing heavy after lunch.
Dewey Beach in Delaware. You might ask, if we were in a hurry to reach Chincoteague, why would we head north? It couldn’t have only been the name Rehoboth that would pull us up here, could it? For the truth, see the photo below.
At how many state shorelines can Caroline step into the ocean? By the way, don’t get the impression that if she stepped into the southern shore of the state’s coast, she’d be satisfied; the more places along the ocean, river, and lake, the better.
Fenwick Island Lighthouse in Delaware could have been yet another valid reason to drive up this way. With over 700 lighthouses in America, it’s impossible that we’ll ever see them all. Turns out that August 7 is National Lighthouse Day, when many lighthouses across America are free to visit, and in New Jersey, just south of us here in Maryland, the state has reward programs for those who see a certain number of lighthouses on this one true important day in American culture.
Two years ago when my mother-in-law was visiting exactly at this time of year, I blogged about our travel plans to do much of what we are doing out here in 2007. That trip back East, for some reason or other, was derailed but not our desire to see the places that we dreamt of. When Caroline was a girl she read the book Misty of Chincoteague by Marguerite Henry, and the idea of visiting the real place that actually exists outside of the imagination of the author is a serious treat for my wife.
Seriously, think about this. There’s an island in America that is protected as a National Seashore because of a bunch of wild ponies that ended up here nearly 200 years ago. Now, those with the means are able to drive out here for a day of pony gazing, and those who might be inclined can even purchase a wild pony at the auction held every July when the ponies are rounded up and made to swim from Assateague to Chincoteague Island.
If there’s a negative aspect to these fast orientation trips into America, it would have to be the brevity of time we can allocate to the most amazing places we wander into. Just look at this pony at the water’s edge with the glistening water framing the world in front of it: we could have stayed here forever until we moved 100 feet in either direction and caught ourselves mesmerized by the next sight. I wonder if there’s a part of us still out there watching this horse for eternity.
Nope, no ponies here, but there is the matter of ocean in Maryland on Assateague Island.
Trust me, she was out in the water, but this picture of Caroline was prettier, so I’m sharing it. If you look to the left behind my wife, you might get some idea of just how hard the wind is blowing out here.
The few birds that braved this side of the island were being whipped around in the currents and seemed to struggle to stay aloft.
Back on the Sinepuxent Bay side of the island, things are relatively calm
Time to leave the ponies on the north side of Assateague and head south. On our way back through the park entrance, we stopped at the visitor’s center and met a girl who was also named Caroline. She was incredibly helpful and even entertaining as she explained horseshoe crabs and whelks and also did impressions of pufferfish, sleeping horses, and, by request, even a starfish. We certainly received our fair share of laughs for our stop-in.
Crossing into Virginia, which they say is for lovers. I’d say we meet that criteria.
Assateague Lighthouse on Chincoteague Island, Virginia, but it’s getting late and we are being eaten alive by mosquitos. We spotted a few ponies down this way, though nothing like what we were seeing up north.
Minutes later, at the ocean, the sky is turning stormy and gray as the sun is fully under the horizon. Nothing left to do but continue our trek south to Nassawadox, Virginia, for our night at the Anchor Motel that we are failing to find. It turns out that they changed their name to Best Value Inn years ago and forgot to inform us as we made our reservation sheesh. Dinner was almost at a Burger King, but after waiting forever with other people waiting longer than us and getting angry, we asked for and received a refund that allowed us to head across the street to a bar & grill that was probably no better than the worst Burger King on earth.
Longwood Garden, PA – Day 11
We were only about a mile from the Pennsylvania Stateline as we left our motel to find breakfast at Hank’s Place over in Chadds Ford. This is the land where the Battle of Brandywine Creek took place in the Revolutionary War back on September 11, 1777. First, some history and then breakfast. The Battle of Brandywine was fought by George Washington and General Sir William Howe, Lord Charles Cornwallis, and Wilhelm Reichsfreiherr von Innhausen und Knyphausen of Germany, who was backing the British. The battle was not only the largest of the Revolutionary War, but with combatants on the battlefield for 11 hours straight; it was also the longest. The Americans lost, allowing the British to take Philadelphia which at the time was the capital of the fledgling United States.
Out of war, we are catapulted into scrapple. What the heck is scrapple? It’s a kind of Pennsylvania Dutch spam made of pork scraps, cornmeal, and spices and then fried before serving. This, though raises the question of who are the Pennsylvania Dutch. Well, they’re not really Dutch but descendants of Germans from the Upper Rhine Valley in the west of Germany who spoke a West Franconian dialect known as Palatine German. This version of German is also the language of the Old Order Amish. Back to where this started: breakfast. As I wrote earlier, we were eating at Hank’s Place in Chadds Ford before I was distracted with all of the other details.
Today’s major focal point is Longwood Gardens, the erstwhile country home of Pierre Samuel du Pont. While planning our East Coast vacation, a random gentleman told me of these magnificent gardens in Kennett Square, Pennsylvania. Researching the garden and its 1,000 acres, which include an old-growth forest that was saved by Mr. du Pont more than 100 years ago, I thought Caroline would love to visit.
In addition to whales, bridges, shells, beaches, the sea, trees, the night sky, sunsets, mountains, art, and a bunch of other stuff, Caroline really loves gardens. Knowing all of this and working on her weak spots, I’m able to drag her deeper into love with this kind of sharing. You might think that sounds manipulative, but I think she might be getting one up on me as she knows these things are of profound interest to me, too, so maybe she’s feigning greater interest in order to make me love her more.
Our oohs and aahs verge into the absurd as things unimagined enter our senses for the first time. When confronted with the spectacular, how are we supposed to respond when our vocabulary to voice astonishment demands expediency in uttering something quickly to let each other know that we’ve been gobsmacked by beauty?
How does one glean any idea of what it might have been like for Pierre du Pont to find himself standing at this gazebo on any given summer day, talking with a friend and fellow industrialist about the economic state of things? Not only did he reorganize and modernize the du Pont companies, but he also played a pivotal role in General Motors as its president back at the time it was the largest corporation on earth. Caroline and I will gaze upon one more of the million sights in this garden today, yet Mr. du Pont was at home here and would simply go for a walk and maybe visit this same spot later in the day to take it all in at his leisure knowing it was all his.
How people are allowed to explore their minds, imaginations, and ambitions when relieved of concerns regarding monetary fears and wandering an environment that lends itself to pondering is a luxury few of us humans will ever have the great fortune to glimpse. I’d imagine that the profoundly wealthy who might learn the real value of life can step outside the burden of their empires to walk within, but maybe I’m just projecting my own dreams and desires.
When does the openness of our ability to find our own experiences lend riches comparable to those had by the likes of a du Pont or Vanderbilt family? Could Caroline and I consider that these jaunts into moments of radical freedom are the equivalent? Do the concerns of budget constraints necessarily put a dampener on our ultimate enjoyment? Maybe, like that bridge out there, we only need to go forward into our experiences with the hope of discovery to validate that we have crossed over to somewhere different, even if our perspective is still that of our own.
As Mr. du Pont walked into these old woods he was helping preserve, the fact of the matter is he couldn’t see them any different than we are seeing them today. While his being able to be present here on a frequent basis is obviously greater than our own, I’d like to believe that if we commit the lesson taken from our eyes and other senses to bring this into our souls, we too are allowed to live within the memories of grand landscapes and evolving ideas.
Prior to Mr. du Pont’s death, he founded the gardens with nearly $100 million to care for the place into the future. Now for a small cost for admission, we are all welcome to wander the property.
Should you get the idea that there is too much here to see in a day or a few hours, you’d be correct. As is the typical story of our travels, this will have to act as a familiarization tour that piques our curiosity to add a return on a future visit.
Interior spaces are as dramatically intriguing and beautiful as the outdoor areas on the property.
The orchid section is a must-see area. I started dreaming of the membership benefits for people living close enough to pay weekly visits in order to watch the seasonal evolution of the myriad plants being cultivated here.
You can rest assured that I took many more photos of the orchids and had a pretty good bit of difficulty choosing just which one I’d share.
This space starts to feel infinite as everywhere we turn is another section of Longwood worthy of admiration. Like all days when we are out traveling, there are limits to how long our indulgence can last. By 1:00 p.m. we are back on the road and missing the garden.
This is the Walnut Green School in Greenville, New Castle County, Delaware. From 1808 until 1947, the school was in operation; it is now a National Historic Place.
We are visiting New Castle, Delaware, this afternoon. This small town was settled by the Dutch West India Company back in 1651.
On October 27, 1682, William Penn stepped ashore here in the New Castle area. In case you didn’t know it, Pennsylvania and Delaware were land grants given to the Penn family due to debts the British government owed William’s father.
While New Castle calls itself a city, with only about 5,300 people living here, it feels more like a village than the places I’ve visited and lived in that were called cities. This National Landmark Historic Village, along with St. Augustine in Florida, Old Washington in Kentucky, and Colonial Williamsburg, should definitely be on the list of places to see America as it looked at the end of the 18th century.
We are driving south from Kirkwood, Delaware, to Maryland, where we are heading out towards the Chesapeake Bay. As we were driving near a wetland, we spotted a bald eagle flying overhead holding a fish in its talons; sadly, there was no asking it to pause while we stopped the car to grab a photo.
The Old Wye Church in Wye Mill, Maryland. This is the only Anglican Church remaining in Talbot County.
There are more than wetlands out next to the Chesapeake Bay.
Of course, there is a lot of water, too. Sadly, there has been a good share of McMansions out this way, too, along with strip malls and all the deprivations that create modernity for those who want to see the natural beauty of the area make way for their lifestyle.
Meanwhile, quiet Oxford is still a quaint, almost remote respite next to a bay struggling to hold on to a way of life that is under threat. You should be so lucky to visit this small town to walk along the bay, have dinner at Latitude 38, get an ice cream at the Scottish Highland Creamery (they even have doggy ice cream), and catch some shut-eye followed by an excellent breakfast at the Ruffled Duck House. We did, and we look forward to the day we can come back and stay a bit longer.