First Time Voter

Caroline Wise voting in an American election for the first time. Phoenix, Arizona

Exactly 60 days ago, on Friday, June 3rd, 2022, Caroline Wise became a U.S. citizen, and today, she voted for the very first time in America. She was mailed her ballot, but at least for this first vote, I knew she’d have to vote in person, and as this is a primary, I’ll wager that come November, she’ll want to vote in person for the general election, too. That’s about all I can really share about us stopping in at a nearby grade school for the occasion; maybe Caroline can share some of her thoughts?

Caroline here: I’ve lived in the States for 25+ years now, and for most of that time, my joke was “lots of taxation, no representation” because, as a resident alien, I couldn’t vote. And while I could conceivably have been voting in German elections, I decided not to since I don’t actually live there and didn’t feel I could properly assess the options. When you are a German citizen living in Germany, you are required to vote. Since the powers that be know where you live (you have to register your home address along with your tax information), they send you the invitation automatically. Nowadays, you probably have more options for absentee or early voting, but back in the day, I would show up at a local school, get a simple ballot, and put crosses into the circles with a pencil.

So, as a new citizen, I am excited to exercise my right to vote, even if this was just a primary election. I had waffled over dropping off an early ballot too long, so the plan on the day of the election was to go a little farther out on our morning walk and head to Paradise Valley Community College, which the election website stated was our closest polling site. However, on the way there, we saw volunteers setting up a polling site at Sunset Canyon Elementary, which made the process even easier. There was no line, and the check-in process was easy. We had told the folks there why this was my first election and received congratulations for my newly acquired status. Once our ballots were inserted into the counting machines, I even felt a bit emotional, which I had not anticipated. I felt proud about passing another milestone on the way to being a “real American.”

Surprise Visit

Jessica Aldridge and John Wise in Phoenix, Arizona

Yesterday around noon I learned that my daughter Jessica would be flying into Phoenix for a work-related reason and that she’d be spending the night with us. The exact message was more akin to, “Can you include me in your dinner plans?” She showed up after 6:00 and while I knew, Caroline didn’t have a clue so it was great to see her face when Jessica came strolling up the stairs after I led her through the nearby gate. Their conversation took us to the point we needed to close out the night and wish each other sweet dreams.

Come morning, we took breakfast at an old favorite place where the Triathlete and Quinoa Breakfast Bowl resonate in our smiles. Dropped Caroline at work and did what I do most every day, headed for my first coffee. Jess and I caught up until we could find a small spot in our stomach that said lunch might work and with that, we moved to a place halfway between coffee shop and airport. And then, after one of the briefest of visits ever, my daughter was dropped off at the curb of Terminal 3 at Sky Harbor right at 12:30 for her flight back to San Diego, California. What a nice little surprise.

Sunrise in Phoenix, Arizona

Sunrise in Phoenix, Arizona

It’s a gorgeous start to a Monday and to the week. The weather forecast here at the end of July suggests we can expect the next 5 to 7 days to all be under 100 degrees (37c) which is extraordinary. It’s 5:30 in the morning and as usual, we might pass a couple of other people out for a morning walk, maybe with their dog. Once we return from our walk, Caroline will call Jutta because it is her birthday.

The Fifth Element – 25th Anniversary Showing

Caroline Wise, Tommy "Tiny" Lister, and John Wise at Disneyland in Anaheim, California

This afternoon Caroline and I went to the movies to watch the 25th-anniversary screening of The Fifth Element with Bruce Willis, Milla Jovovich, Gary Oldman, and Tiny Lister. Back in 2009, we were visiting Disneyland, and sitting on a wall waiting for his family to emerge from the same bathroom Caroline was in, was this guy, Tiny Lister. You may not know, it but he played President Lindberg in The Fifth Element. I knew it as though we’d watched the film a dozen years before, it was an iconic movie in our lives and much of the dialog and soundtrack got stuck in our heads.

So, did it hold up? Nearly 25 years later and we are still in love with The Fifth Element. Everything that bothered us back then still bothers us today but on the whole, it’s just a great film.

Rafi

Rafi of Phoenix, Arizona

Shock greeted my brain while big uncertainty was writ large over this man’s face. It must have been the crazy look in my eyes as I came to an abrupt stop on my way to the ATM at this gas station and stared at him. Without saying a word, I pulled out my phone and frantically searched for something while looking up at him and then back to my phone. He looked worried as my smiles didn’t seem to allay his anxiety that I might be crazy. If you knew the location of this gas station you’d understand the distinct possibility that a man looking at him wild-eyed was indeed insane.

I found what I was looking for and at that point, I told this “stranger” that I knew him. He was certain we hadn’t met before. So, I turned my phone around and showed him a photo of him I had taken 12 years ago. I explained that I had snapped the photo at Indo-Euro Foods where he used to rent videos and surprise overtook his face along with a big smile. That old photo can be seen here, just click somewhere near this.

This is Rafi, originally from Afghanistan. He is now married and has two kids. Just as he was a dozen years ago, this is one of the happiest people I’ve ever had the good fortune to run into. I’ll have to stop in from time to time to say hi.